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Sunday morning coffee with a little musing: Blake & Justin gives me life!
My 2025 is and will be all about Blake and Justin. I am completely invested. I don’t take pleasure in the misfortunes of others but this lawsuit. Wow.
When the story first broke, like everyone else, i had a knee jerk reaction and i thought Justin was all sorts of scum. How things have changed. The shit is slinging faster than you can wipe your ass.
In the end I just want the truth to come out which in today’s climate is a very hard ask.
At the moment i feel like the truth lies more with the Baldoni Camp.
I do believe that Blake is a mean girl. I do believe that Ryan is not really the nice guy he presents to be. Obviously I cannot prove this but I never bought into that Ellen was a nice person and well we know how that ended.
If true, it’s shameful that a B actress uses her power husband and friends to get what she wants.
It’s shameful that Ryan, who I am sure worked hard to get where he is and the power he now has is a bully. Or maybe forced to be. Who knows. However like Ellen I feel he really isn’t a nice person. The worst people are fake nice people.
It’s crazy how many YouTubers are going in hard on Blake. Their animosity towards her is clear. And there are so many. Here are two YouTubers whose videos I do watch regarding this drama. Both love to hate on Blake.. obviously Kjersti Flaa has some history and reason to.
Fifty Shades Of Transparent
One of the most over used and annoying word is ‘transparent’. It’s a word that is used in all walks of life but I got to hear this word over and over again during my many years in youth soccer from coaches all the way to the higher ups in the club. You know, the ones you look to for guidance. The ones that preach but don’t follow their own preaching much like tele-evangelists. And apparently I can’t escape it. Got the privilege of hearing a current coach use that word a couple weeks ago at a tournament I was at. I, of course, smiled and agreed with him but inside I was rolling my eyes.
‘I am always transparent when is comes to…’, ‘you have to be transparent,’try to be transparent ‘,’the most important thing is to be transparent‘ and on and on and on.
For the longest time I just thought that these people who use this word have zero clue what it even means. There are some youth coaches still today including the big cahuna at our club that should be the last people on this earth to use this word. Ever.
I was wrong to think that they have no clue what the word means. You know how image apps allow you to change the percentage of transparency on a photo? Well… this technique is used in real life as well. Whereas you should always be 100% transparent on any matter, instead all you need to do is tweak the percentage to address your immediate need. That’s all there’s to it. It’s almost too simple. In theory, this way, you are always in the right. And that’s how you get away with murder.
My Random Thoughts 